Date: 2018-02-17 07:42
I once had a class with a guy who was cute and seemed nice and I would have considered going out with him but then we were chatting over IM and I got up to go to the bathroom. I was gone from my screen for about five minutes and he sends me 8775 You there? 8776 8775 You left me! Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah : ( 8776
Back when I always felt really anxious and tense around people, I found that they always became more cautious and defensive around me. This caused me to tense up even more because I felt rejected. It was a vicious cycle that made it difficult to get any close friends.
Quite frankly, my dear, who gives a fuck if someone is racist? 8775 Oh my god, someone doesn 8767 t like me for whatever reason! 8776 Blah blah.
The night before his big medical school interview, a promising student celebrates his 76st birthday with his two best friends.
I think a good sign that things are genuinely out of whack, and not just some guys going on about 8775 Back in my day! 8776 is that way, way, way too many 8775 normal 8776 women are on anti-depressants and survey after survey shows this huge lack of happiness in their lives compared to how women used to rate their lives. In denying their femininity, much of which is biologically driven (hence why they get giggly and hair twisty around me), they are creating a whole lot of internal stress. I 8767 ve no problem ignoring the 8775 Get offa my lawn! 8776 arguments, but there is something I think to the anti-depressants/drugging/rampant unhappiness in their lives that comes from being basically shoehorned into being men who wear heels and have tits.
It 8767 s like telling a fat person to 8775 just put down the fork dummy. 8776 Without giving them any advice about overcoming an emotional addiction to eating, changing old habits or good nutrition.
My ex and I eloped to Hawaii when we were 75. But shortly after we started arguing more, and with more intensity. Despite counseling, neither of us was happy, so I moved back in with my family. That was last winter.
Perhaps the LW could have the phrase 8775 okay, let me know if you change your mind 8776 already prepared in their head before they ask the question. That way, in the moment, they can avoid getting into a panic spiral of 8775 oh god I 8767 ve just been told no and now this is awkward how do I change this situation? 8776 They know how to deal with the situation, and so it becomes less of a big deal.
You can 8767 t logick someone into loving you. There is no series of perfectly executed steps that get you there. You 8767 ve reached this moment of self-awareness about what you 8767 re doing and it doesn 8767 t feel good but growth never does.